It's hard to lose a friend
Some friendships end, that's a fact of life. Not every ending is because of a horrible fight. Sometimes people just drift apart. Even worse, sometimes just one person drifts while the other tries desperately to hold on. With the fight you have the anger to fuel you, to make you feel that maybe it's a good thing the friendship ended because why would you want to be friends with that person anyway. When you start drifting apart from someone sometimes you desperately want to hold on but it just doesn't work and there is nothing you can do to change the course you are on. Those are the ones that hurt like buggary.
It just sucks to know that who you are is not enough for someone anymore - someone who used to love you and that you thought you'd be friends with forever. To know they no longer want to spend time with you and only force themselves to talk to you through loyalty for what you once had - well that's one of the worst feelings in the world. To try so hard to be someone they want to be friends with and still fail makes you feel worthless. All in all it's a pretty soul destroying situation.
As anyone who reads this blog regualarly knows, I like to read various websites where people write their secrets. So many of them are about lost friendships. It definitely happens a lot - but knowing other people are going through the same thing never helps, does it? I hope that some of those friendships are restored this Christmas. Getting a friend back would definitely be a wonderful Christmas present.
Even though it's not the day I normally post secrets, here are some that fit what I've just been talking about. Anyone out there who happens to be reading this and going through this situation - I know it doesn't really help, but you are not alone. These secrets can attest to that.
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It just sucks to know that who you are is not enough for someone anymore - someone who used to love you and that you thought you'd be friends with forever. To know they no longer want to spend time with you and only force themselves to talk to you through loyalty for what you once had - well that's one of the worst feelings in the world. To try so hard to be someone they want to be friends with and still fail makes you feel worthless. All in all it's a pretty soul destroying situation.
As anyone who reads this blog regualarly knows, I like to read various websites where people write their secrets. So many of them are about lost friendships. It definitely happens a lot - but knowing other people are going through the same thing never helps, does it? I hope that some of those friendships are restored this Christmas. Getting a friend back would definitely be a wonderful Christmas present.
Even though it's not the day I normally post secrets, here are some that fit what I've just been talking about. Anyone out there who happens to be reading this and going through this situation - I know it doesn't really help, but you are not alone. These secrets can attest to that.
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